A few weeks ago, I stood on the stage at the Airbnb Summit in San Francisco, accepting the award for “The Leaders Influencer.” I was incredibly honored by this recognition, and as I reflected on what brought me here, one truth kept coming back to me: we, as women, often let age define us, but it doesn’t have to.
I’m living proof that women can pivot and create entirely new, fulfilling careers later in life. At a point where many might think their professional journeys are slowing down, I started mine anew. To all the women out there who are hesitating, questioning whether you’re too old, or whether you’ve missed your moment to shine—be fearless! Age isn’t a barrier; it’s a springboard.
For years, I was held back by a vague sense of fear. I’m not even sure what exactly I was afraid of. Maybe it was the thought that I was too old to take a risk. Maybe I felt like new paths were for younger people. But let me tell you: once I pushed past those doubts, an entire world of possibilities opened up. I found parts of myself I didn’t even know existed!
Rather than seeing age as a liability, I encourage you to embrace it as one of your greatest assets. Think about it: at 25, you had energy and ambition, but now you have something even more valuable—wisdom. The experiences we’ve accumulated give us the ability to navigate challenges with patience, acceptance, and confidence. We understand ourselves in a way we couldn’t have at a younger age.
Sure, age might give us a few wrinkles and grey hairs, but it also brings resilience, self-assurance, and perspective. These qualities are essential, especially in the dynamic world of short-term rentals. Whether you’re handling complex guest situations, managing multiple properties, or just learning new platforms and systems, your life experiences make you uniquely qualified for success.
Ladies, if you’re considering a new career, a new project, or even just trying something outside your comfort zone—go for it. Do it now, because now is always the right time.
And if you need support, DM me. I’ve been where you are, and I’m here to help. I believe in the power of community, and together we can navigate any challenges that come our way.
Oh, and one more thing! I may have been up on stage in San Francisco, but I was definitely representing my adopted hometown of Nashville—cowboy boots, denim jacket, and a lace prairie dress!
Let’s take on the world, one short-term rental at a time. We’ve got this!
P.S. My new podcast – “Women of Airbnb” tells the story of 12 Nashville women who overcame obstacles to help themselves and their families by hosting on Airbnb. Listening to some of the women I was moved to tears by their resilience, determination and just plain grit! https://nastra.org/women-of-airbnb-debut/
Barb is the president of NASTRA and has spent her professional career in hospitality and real estate. After acquiring her first short-term rental in 2018, Barb moved her focus to legal advocacy after she sued the city of Nashville over a permit issue. Over the last three years, she has mentored more than 2,800 new STR hosts and is the Community Leader for Airbnb in Nashville, as well as an Airbnb “Ask a Superhost” Ambassador. Barb has appeared on numerous radio broadcasts, television shows, and podcasts to talk about her love of hosting. She also manages and co-hosts a number of short term rentals across Tennessee and Arkansas. Barb and her husband Pat own a hotel brokerage, development and consulting company. Listen to “Women of Airbnb” on Spotify, Amazon Music, and Audible.